One of the skills you learn or build on when you get married is how to solve problems together. You are a team member now who’s taken on the challenge to figure things out with each other. As a team, you’ll need to build an emotional bank account with each other. Cooperation, support, encouragement – these make deposits in the bank. Criticism, shame, digging your heels in without merit make withdrawals. Calling Card of marriage This emotional bank account building is a calling card of marriage. If one person does all the giving in, eventually all the sacrifices one of… Read More »